Guys too have ijjat..which they need to protect.

With the changing scenario, there has been a change in the rape statistics too , not that the numbers have come down..just a change in the victims!! Thanks to the country of George.W.Bush , whose country is the pioneer of homosexual relationships. Earlier, if an attempt of molestation, sexual harassment or rape was mentioned, what followed was this question? Who was the unlucky girl, may god give her the strength to bear the agony?

Today, you never no, what might just happen, girls have stepped out of such arena. They are open to all this and hence, no complaints on records. But, complaints from the unlikely sex, males, have begin to surface. It is difficult to digest this fact, but it’s a gift of the coming new age.

In India , asking a lift or just hanging around with friends, or strangers you might have met some hours or days ago is common. A kind of bon-homie develops and people enjoy. But, refrain from such activities in the US of A my friend. A guy might be willing to help you, but to help himself. A bond with a stranger might just lend you in trouble, to be precise the options are bed, couch or the back /front seat (as convenient) of his car.

The American black community has somehow still not managed to get a very respectable stand in this society। I am not talking about people who are part of the presidents office, or who are very well off। But, a normal guy is always looked at with suspicion, the same was conveyed to me to be wary of them. And on the very first day, I saw a huge guy walking towards me asking me something….i was barely reaching his shoulders, I quickly ran to the reception and stayed there till the huge figure vanished why??? ...हाँ भाई मुझे भी दर्र लगता है, अनजान शहर मे इतने बडे आदमी से ...और जब इज्जत का खतरा हो तो और भी ज्यादा फटती है!! भैये जीस के पैर न पड़ी बेवाई वह क्या जाने पीर पराई !